A woman of duty.

The smartest thing that the boy Ashley ever told me was the theory of "Karmic Duty." In this theory, it is acceptable to do what you feel instead of what you think is right. The theory justifies this by explaining how even if your deed seemed wrong at the time, it may have been neccessary in the grand scheme of life.
I used to feel bad about myself, about the fact that I frequently treat people exactly the way I feel about them regardless of what I actually know about them. But thanks to Karmic Duty, I can feel confident that my actions are serving the greater good. So next time we interact and you walk away thinking, "God, what a bitch!", just thank your lucky stars and know that you are still in it.